Georgie believes that by opening up about our relationships with our parents, we can begin to break down the stigma surrounding imperfect families. “We need to create a space where people feel comfortable sharing their stories, even if they’re not pretty,” she says. “By doing so, we can start to normalize the fact that not every family is perfect, and that’s okay.”
So, why do we compare our parents? Is it a harmless way to bond with friends or a cry for help? According to Georgie, it’s a bit of both. “When we say ‘my mom is better than your mom,’ it’s often a defense mechanism,” she says. “We’re trying to validate our own experiences and make ourselves feel better. But in reality, it’s not about whose mom is better; it’s about acknowledging that every mom is different, and that’s okay.” -VirtualTaboo- Georgie Lyall -My Mom Is Better ...
Growing up, Georgie Lyall was always taught to respect her elders and avoid talking negatively about her family members, especially her mom. But as she grew older, she began to realize that this silence was not only stifling but also unhealthy. “I think there’s this huge taboo around talking about our parents, especially our moms,” Georgie explains. “We’re always supposed to be grateful and appreciative, which is great, but what about when that’s not the case? What about when our moms aren’t the best role models or aren’t supportive?” Georgie believes that by opening up about our