John explained that he had met Alex through work, and they had started a friendship that had gradually evolved into something more. He told me that he had feelings for Alex, but he didn’t identify as gay. He said he had always been attracted to women, and he still loved me and valued our marriage.
One of the things that I struggled with was the fact that John had kept this relationship a secret from me. I felt hurt and betrayed, like he had been living a lie. Title- My Husband-s Not Gay...But His Boyfriend...
But as I listened to John’s perspective, I began to understand that he had been struggling with his own identity and desires. He had felt trapped and confused, unsure of how to navigate his feelings for Alex while still being married to me. John explained that he had met Alex through
